10-18-2011, 09:35 AM
Join Date: Aug 2011
| | Re: Emotional affair is over...
You probably won't listen... but if there was physical abuse at all, you need to get out.
You know, deep in your heart, that both are lying. Who knows what her motivation is to lie? Maybe she wanted to get "revenge" on her husband and now that she is done using him, she will lie for him so that she doesn't have to deal with him anymore. He can go back to you and she doesn't have to deal with the stress of a nasty breakup and she can tell her husband the same lie, but in reverse... "he wanted more, but I didn't, so I sent him packing" and use the evidence that he is back with you to show that it's over.
Likely, he moved in and the fantasy of each other was destroyed and reality sucked. Neither wants the other and both wants their marriages back - but that doesn't mean either will stop looking for greener grass. Especially if he knows that he can just tell you that nothing happened and you will believe it.
Deep down, do you really believe that he could LIVE with another woman for any period of time, especially one that he was having an EA with and NOT have it turn physical?