10-18-2011, 05:35 PM
Join Date: May 2010
| | Re: Can anybody answer this please
Originally Posted by HerToo
Are the cheaters expected, by their new partner, to hate their x's to ensure that the marriage will never, ever recover?
No, because most of the time we cheaters give a BS story that it's a crazy ex-gf, ex-wife or soon to be ex-wife stalking us. That gives us the sympathy vote from the OW/OM. BTW, this is the easiest and most used excuse from cheaters once the wife/gf finds out and starts making trouble. And it works almost all the time.
On those occasions that the OW/OM was the instigator then yes they want to make the DS hate the LS because that makes it easier to keep feeding them BS and keeping them under their control.