10-23-2011, 07:35 AM
Join Date: Jul 2011
| | Re: Wife having a PA
Originally Posted by Hurting_In_NC
Maybe some of y'all aren't understanding my dilemna. I have decided to wait about contacting my wife's employer until I clear it with my attorney. Not because I'm scared or worried she'll be angry with me, but bc I plan on pursuing her for both spousal and child support. But ig she's not working, where would that money come from? Also, how will it look to a judge if I get her fired? Is he going to say that I was more concerned about revenge than the well-being of my children? As much as I want to completely destroy her and the OM, I have to consider my children first and foremost, and try to keep a level head and do the smart thing.
You have to do what you think is best and I'm sure everyone here is backing you up.
As for exposure you should at least stay in contact with POSOM's wife.
If it were me however, scorched earth wouldn't be a strong enough term.