I won't buy 'friendship'-- no way no how. I couldn't get anything from CID lookup. He has a cheap phone on my plan. I have no idea other than to take it from him to retrieve texts. I don't want to play games, if he is cheating he can leave... plain and simple.
if it is a cheap phone then it likely has a sim card
look for a sim card reader
they cost maybe $20-30 and you take the sim card out of the phone and insert it into the reader, it hooks up to your computer which will give you the stored info. The way deleted texts works is like this- when a text is deleted, it stays in the memory of the sim card UNTIL it is written over. So IOW you can read most of the deleted texts
I dont' want to play games. If he is cheating, I just want it over. I was really hoping I was wrong and there was some logical explanation for it. What purpose will it serve to drag it out and catch him?
If you confront him without any more evidence than what you have now, I think he will tell you "we are just friends" and begin deleting any damning evidence.
lisa, try to rein in the anger a touch
usually we have to tell betrayed spouses to get angry but you're already steaming
it is very important to gather as much info as you can
you need the facts to make a more informed decision
Why? What kind of facts? This persons phone is all over our bill, from this month and last month at least. I haven't looked back farther yet. Either he has a reasonable explanation of who this is or he doesn't.