Re: Oh no.... now what?
Lisa--I just read your thread.
Who is the OW? Is she married/partnered? If so, yoU MUST out her to her partner immediately.
As for your husband, since he admitted and wants out I would tell him he can GTFO. He's not welcome in your home as long as he's betraying you and carrying on with some wh*re. Make that crystal clear. Do not be nice to him. Do not reward his bad behavior.
Go see a lawyer and discuss your options.
Tough love is the only way to approach this. DO NOT CHASE AFTER SOMEONE who is running away from you!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you beg him to stay and cry for him, he will see you as a weak woman. Show him you are NOT and you don't need this bullsh*t in your life.
And do NOT text her again. She is a ****roach and not worth the dirty on the street.
DO expose her cheating if she is married/and to her family.