10-20-2011, 11:23 AM
Join Date: Apr 2011
| | Re: Oh no.... now what?
Originally Posted by StrangerThanFiction
You sort of tipped your hand already by contacting this other woman. What she probably did is contact your husband right after letting him know you sent her a text. I would look at online phone records to see if she did contact him after your text, and if he behaves differently next time you see him. If he had incriminating texts on his phone he might just delete them. But I would try to get his phone and read what they had been texting anyway in case they hadn't been deleted. Does he hide his phone from you or lock it with a password?
Was your gut telling you something was wrong before you saw the calls on the phone records? Other red flags?
I would investigate more before confronting him, but he may already be aware since you contacted the other woman.
I dont' want to play games. If he is cheating, I just want it over. I was really hoping I was wrong and there was some logical explanation for it. What purpose will it serve to drag it out and catch him?