Re: Endless Text Messaging
My stbxw had gotten her first cell about a year and a half before she started her affair, and was texting more and more to her girlfriends - early on I used to always ask her who she was texting so often, and she used to openly tell me, even show me the texts, no concerns if I picked up her phone. It was getting to the point I no longer bothered giving it any thought, would make disapproving eyes at her when I was trying to have a conversation and she wanted to text her friends instead. I was getting acclimatized to her behavior, I'm sure she was up to several hundred texts a day, and to many different people. DDay really snuck up quick on me, I felt so stupid when I realized that around the time of her PA most of the texts were to boyfriends not girlfriends, and most of the ones to her girlfriends were about the boyfriends. Ouch.
Anyways, signs to look put for, I'm definitely drawing boundaries on texting for future relationships.