Re: This feels like a soap opera
I realize this is a public forum and people are welcome to comment but this is also supposed to be a safe place for a BS to come for support. Sometimes people need to man up and start getting mad about the situation in order to push them into taking action, so it can be a good thing for people to comment on how bad a situation is, but I am well beyond that point.
Continuing to tell me how bad what she did was is not helping at this point and only serves to rub it in my face. I think about this stuff enough every day as it is.
I've made the decision to try to work things out for the sake of my family because that is something I want. Some people can't bring themselves to do that, others can, and still others are not sure if they can but are willing to try. I am in the third category right now.