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Old 11-02-2011, 07:11 PM   #46 (permalink)
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I need some quick advice.

I extended the olive branch and allowed her and the accomplice to go what was suppose to be dinner, a few drinks and then home. Didn't happen that way.

She made her way back to the bar now famous in the thread. She stayed out way late. She came home angry at me. We fought. She was pissed I talked to the accomplice, saying she told me not to talk to her about it, which she didn't.

Today I checked and there is one message each way, instigated by her to the OM, near the end of the evening. Do I call her out on it now, reveling my resource or now continue to collect evidence for total blowup?

Part of her problem is that she doesn't want to admit that she is in an EA, now where I was hopeful it wasn't a PA, I can't be sure anymore.


Why did you let her go?

Why did you argue with a drunk?

Who/what was she really pissed about?

One message out, one message in, rest of the time they were together, at least thats what I would bet.

As in "I'm at the bar" Then "I'll be there in a minute." Turns into late night drunk.
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Old 11-02-2011, 07:27 PM   #47 (permalink)
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One message out, one message in, rest of the time they were together, at least thats what I would bet.

As in "I'm at the bar" Then "I'll be there in a minute." Turns into late night drunk.
Probably more than that. TF just provided the alibi, that's all, for rendezvous with the OM.
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Old 11-04-2011, 12:48 PM   #48 (permalink)
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Any updates Voice?

You've been a bit quiet lately.....
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Well, hello. Almost a year to the date, eerie.

Im gonna hold off for a bit since I still have legal stuff holding on but it happened again.. sadface.

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So sorry man.
What's you plan?
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With the no strong arming and more being a nice guy, I can't say I'm surprised at this outcome.

What happened?
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Old 10-26-2012, 10:48 AM   #53 (permalink)
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Again with legal actions pending I don't want to get too into it incase it's searched and found as it kinda unique.

I have good evidence of the cheating. More than what she knows. But I have brought it up in the sep agreement and talks. We're working on the separation agreement now but if I cant get the minimum of what I want kid custody wise I will be suing for adultery.
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