Pretty Much Have Lost It

Beowulf · 01-11-2012, 08:39 AM

A friend of mine lost his wife to another woman. She left him with all the kids, the house, car, everything and moved to North Carolina to be with her. Her kids refused to speak to her, her family disowned her. She lost everything. Their relationship lasted for two years before she found her new partner was cheating on her with another woman. She came crying back to my friend but he just laughed in her face and shut the door.

Almostrecovered · 01-11-2012, 08:46 AM

the second is the same format I see for our corporation's EIN (same as a social security number but for companies)

Dadof3 · 01-11-2012, 08:51 AM

DG: Did you look up the Bank Routing Number in MICR format

DailyGrind · 01-11-2012, 09:20 AM

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Exactly my thoughts as well. Daily, when you confronted her about an affair did you specifically ask if there was another MAN? Maybe when she said no she was being truthful.

Well...when I confronted her about the conversation in the car.....one of the things she said was "even if there was another phone...what makes you think I was talking to a man?"

I thought $100 seemed kind of high. It would certainly make some sense. But, it also seems kind of impersonal...if it is something more than a friend. Problem is...I found it in her purse. If I confront her....it is back to "I bet you look through all my things, don't you?!!"

Anyone have any input on the @messaging.sprintpcs.com note? I'm wondering if she's texting someone through her computer at work?

Dad3 - I don't think it is a routing number. It sure does look like an EIN....but I tried doing a lookup on it, and came back blank. She does do HR...so it could simply be related to work.

chapparal · 01-11-2012, 09:25 AM

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I wouldn't know where she is getting the money. I googled the routing number....no match. What about the sprint messaging thing? Also found a $100 AMEX gift certificate with "Love Tina" on the envelope. WTF? There is a Tina at her work. ?? Seems like a lot for a friendly Christmas present.
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Sounds like a lot and why would a co worker say "Love"?

However, a gift card for a lover? That doesn't sound right either unless it was to pay for a prepaid phone.

working_together · 01-11-2012, 09:27 AM

I wouldn't confront her with the fact that you were snooping in her purse, that would piss me off. And you know from the VAR thing that she will get angry with you, and that'll start a whole new arguement. You have to take another approach, not sure what at this point tho.

working_together · 01-11-2012, 09:29 AM

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Originally Posted by chapparal

Sounds like a lot and why would a co worker say "Love"?

However, a gift card for a lover? That doesn't sound right either unless it was to pay for a prepaid phone.

Some of my friends give me gifts for x-mas etc. (female of course), they always write mushy stuff in the card, and sign it with Love. But it's never over $25, so yeah, $100 is a bit much, but if the person is wealthy, then it makes sense.

working_together · 01-11-2012, 09:31 AM

I had a female co-worker who shared an office with me for 3 years, she also signed cards with "Love". Depends how long she has known the co-worker.

DailyGrind · 01-11-2012, 09:38 AM

My W runs the HR for two of the companies that the owner has, in our area. He has a number of companies....some in Chicago, and a couple here. I'm not sure...but I think this "Tina" may be the office manager of the second company here (W mostly works for the main company.) She probably does make a lot of money...if that is the person. I know my W would be dealing with her quite a bit. But I'm just not sure this is the same person.

Man...could this story GET any weirder?

warlock07 · 01-11-2012, 09:40 AM

Do you have sprint phone with unlimited data plan and 4G?

DailyGrind · 01-11-2012, 09:41 AM

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Do you have sprint phone with unlimited data plan and 4G?

Nope. Verizon...with unlimited data plan.

Shaggy · 01-11-2012, 09:47 AM

Could the gift card be to pay for a second phone?
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Almostrecovered · 01-11-2012, 09:48 AM

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Anyone have any input on the @messaging.sprintpcs.com note? I'm wondering if she's texting someone through her computer at work?

(insert cell number)@messaging.sprintpcs.com would be a way to send a text to a phone by email

kenmoore14217 · 01-11-2012, 11:09 AM

take 0060439575 and write it 575.934.0600 it looks like a phone number in New Mexico !! Other than that no clue

DailyGrind · 01-11-2012, 12:00 PM

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Thought you were done snooping and spying??? Why are you doing this to yourself?
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I don't know. She's been a little nicer to me, since our counseling on Saturday. It is scary the piss out of me. My heart and emotions are so all over the place. In a way....some of these stories in this forum (where the WS's are ripping hearts out) almost seem better. At least they KNOW what they are dealing with. I can't move forward, can't move back...left...right....up...down....this is KILLING ME!