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Old 01-22-2012, 03:42 PM   #856 (permalink)
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I am proud of you for the text to her telling her you love her. I hope she responds.

You should have given her a hug/cuddled last night when you were in bed. She is I'm sure waiting for you to do it first.

She might be embarrassed or even be hard for her to be the first one to initiate the first hug.

You two will get there...
Yeah...well...she just got home. She didn't respond. But....baby steps.
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Old 01-22-2012, 04:12 PM   #857 (permalink)
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I am quite happily surprised. For now do not push. This is much better than I thought it would be at this time. Baby steps. I like it. Even baby steps will get you somewhere. Don't rush it, but you can believe she has been so lonely.
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Old 01-22-2012, 04:45 PM   #858 (permalink)
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I'm actually seeing my wife of old, all of a sudden. Ravens playoff right now...and she made some chilli for the game...and some snacks.

Now...my ONLY flag, right now. She's showing some very real interest in the game. Wanting to see the plays...wondering what is going on. I asked her why the sudden interest. Her reply was that even the women at work are interested...and she doesn't want to feel left out. She's NEVER shown interest before....but ...we'll just see. I'll take it at face value. Right now...she is definitely MUCH more friendly. I just told her we should get our hug out of the way, for the day. She laughed and gave me a REAL hug...felt real good.
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Old 01-22-2012, 05:05 PM   #859 (permalink)
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I'm actually seeing my wife of old, all of a sudden. Ravens playoff right now...and she made some chilli for the game...and some snacks.

Now...my ONLY flag, right now. She's showing some very real interest in the game. Wanting to see the plays...wondering what is going on. I asked her why the sudden interest. Her reply was that even the women at work are interested...and she doesn't want to feel left out. She's NEVER shown interest before....but ...we'll just see. I'll take it at face value. Right now...she is definitely MUCH more friendly. I just told her we should get our hug out of the way, for the day. She laughed and gave me a REAL hug...felt real good.
Clap clap clap clap clap
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Old 01-22-2012, 05:52 PM   #860 (permalink)
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Maybe...just maybe, she hasn't seen it yet.
Well....she saw it. It isn't unread on her phone. She just didn't respond. Ouch!
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Well....she saw it. It isn't unread on her phone. She just didn't respond. Ouch!
You two are doing great. Don't over analyze or you will screw up.
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Yes, Ouch...

But, what are you doing spying on her? How do you know it was read, unless you are still spying? Stop doing this to yourself....


Get caught and you will have wiped out all your progress.
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Get caught and you will have wiped out all your progress.
K.......tough crowd.
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We aren't that tough. We could have mentioned the cat...
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I'm actually seeing my wife of old, all of a sudden. Ravens playoff right now...and she made some chilli for the game...and some snacks.

Now...my ONLY flag, right now. She's showing some very real interest in the game. Wanting to see the plays...wondering what is going on. I asked her why the sudden interest. Her reply was that even the women at work are interested...and she doesn't want to feel left out. She's NEVER shown interest before....but ...we'll just see. I'll take it at face value. Right now...she is definitely MUCH more friendly. I just told her we should get our hug out of the way, for the day. She laughed and gave me a REAL hug...felt real good.
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...and your next "baby step" will be: HUG THE CAT!!!
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And then she goes to bed, again...without saying goodnight.
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Old habits die hard.
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Or she caught you snooping?
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Old 01-22-2012, 09:23 PM   #870 (permalink)
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Or she caught you snooping?
nah...I just glanced at her phone to see if there was a pending text notification on the main screen. i didn't really snoop. And she was upstairs, at the time....giving DD2 a bath.

Chapparal may be right...just habit....I hope.
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