02-02-2012, 10:07 AM
Join Date: Jul 2011
| | Re: Pretty Much Have Lost It
Originally Posted by DailyGrind
Not until the 15th.
I made her another egg/ham/cheese breakfast sandwich, this morning. As I was making it, she asks me "how many days a week are you making breakfast?"...but kind of in an irritated....wtf are you doing, kind of way. I'm thinking...'what? You aren't appreciating it?' She thanked me for it...but not exactly warmly.
I'm hoping my IC sessions give me the clear-mindedness to make the right decisions for this marriage.
So why are you doing it? You are smothering her! Quit being so damn nice to her all the time. She ignores you, does not do the lifting, and is irritated that you make her breakfast. And your response is to ignore it? Hear what she is saying and stop making her breakfast. It is not working, so don't do it.