I am only telling you this from experience (remember I was just like your wife).
You need to go back at it again tonight. Maybe wait until tomorrow, but I really think tonight. This is why:
1. She has to be thinking about what just happened last night. And, she actually may be turned on by it.
2. The more women have sex the more we want it.
3. When you do go at it again (tonight), make sure you take care of her first.
4. Make sure you tell her how much she turns you on. How much you have missed her. And, how you love her body and beautiful you think she is.
5. I know she doesn't respond much to your texts...but, send her sexting messages. Not over the top ones...but, saying I loved last night. Send things that I mentioned in #4.
6. GET HER TURNED ON. Make her want you.
DG...you have to stick to it and keep trying. I have been telling you this for the last 3 months. Trust me on this...
We'll see about tonight...but definitely by tomorrow. I already sent her one text this morning that the slacks she was wearing to work, REALLY fit her butt perfectly! I couldn't take my eyes off her.
BTW...one thing my wife can always count on....she ALWAYS is taken care of first.
Did you talk much during the er.... act? or was it a one way traffic?
Oh no....we don't talk during. Wish she did...but no....can't interfere with her concentration.
It was one way in the fact that she let me play with her, until she finished....then we did our deed. She didn't exactly dig her claws into my back, or anything. But it was definitely better than a cold fish.
Awesome job DG on sending that text (and everything else you have done in the last 24 hours). Did she respond? If not, don't worry just keep at it.
Remember, don't ask... always take the LEAD. Remember also...I was just like your wife for 19 years. I changed my whole outlook on sex/relationships after my husband took the LEAD.
Oh, and one other thing, I ALWAYS showered before sex...I got over that real quick.
Actually...I think the shower first worked perfectly. I didn't have to surprise her with a sudden major move. But, she obviously was clued into the expectation, once we hit the shower...and were naked together for the first time in 2 years. She knew what was up, and had a few moments to mentally prepare....without me giving up the "lead." It created a more gradual escalation...while establishing the outcome up front.
Oh...and no...she didn't respond to the text. She DID respond to the email (work), later, about something to do with Survivor. So..maybe she just hasn't seen her cell phone yet.
Okay..here is a question for the ladies. Some point, before we stopped relations (I simply don't remember if one or two years before) wife suddenly changed her "grooming" to more of a RUNWAY style. I loved it...but wondered about the change. Well, last night I realized she was more of a short MOHAWK type. Very thin line, if you know what I mean. This, from someone who supposedly han't had relations for two years, either. If you ladies are not having sex....would this make sense? Seems awful sexy, if she isn't in that role. Just curious. Posted via Mobile Device
Okay..here is a question for the ladies. Some point, before we stopped relations (I simply don't remember if one or two years before) wife suddenly changed her "grooming" to more of a RUNWAY style. I loved it...but wondered about the change. Well, last night I realized she was more of a short MOHAWK type. Very thin line, if you know what I mean. This, from someone who supposedly han't had relations for two years, either. If you ladies are not having sex....would this make sense? Seems awful sexy, if she isn't in that role. Just curious. Posted via Mobile Device
Yeah, don't want to say it, but it is a bit weird that she's grooming. I haven't had sex in 7 weeks, and I'm only doing "minor grooming", I'm like "who cares...."
Again....ask her, have you not even seen her naked in two years??? Or, maybe she knew this moment together was coming very soon, and wanted to look errr, sexy.
Nope.. Haven't even seen her those two years..except the one time I accidentally walked in on her in the bathroom. I don't want to spoil anything yet, by asking. But is curious. Posted via Mobile Device
Nope.. Haven't even seen her those two years..except the one time I accidentally walked in on her in the bathroom. I don't want to spoil anything yet, by asking. But is curious. Posted via Mobile Device
I didn't mean ask her right out "why you shaving like that", but in a more subtle manner, maybe say "wow, that's new for you, how long have you been doing that".....subtle, with compliments.
Weather sex involved or not I would shave down there. Hair there is gross to me. Posted via Mobile Device
Well..she went through 33 years with just a bikini cut. 3-4 years ago dramatic change to a roughly 2" wide trim above, shaved below. Then, during out drought to a very narrow strip. She always told me would never do a full shave cause that was too girly. But..this seems awfully close. Paranoid? Posted via Mobile Device
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