11-02-2011, 02:22 AM
Join Date: Nov 2011
| | Ruined Marriage - Cheating & Nagging Wife
I want to share my problems with you. I started dating my wife around 3.5 years back and it all looked good. She was a simple and descent girl and I liked her simplicity and proposed marriage. I loved and trusted her blindly, never bothered to check her mail/chats or any profile information even though I knew the password to her mail accounts. Finally we got married in Mar 2008.
In May 2008, I got suspicious after I heard her talking to someone in another room whenever we had an argument. I checked her phone and found that called someone but did not save his phone number. I kept checking her phone for the next 1 week, checking whom she phoned/SMSed and chatted. Finally One day I checked her email account was shocked to see that she was chatting with her previous boyfriend. She told me that she broke off with him a year ago. Most shocking was that she had sent her naked photographs to her previous boyfriend before marriage and was discussing about my parents with him. She was constantly in touch with him during out courtship period and even after marriage.
I told her mom about all this and she asked me to forget all these things, delete all evidence material and start fresh. I thought maybe I should just forget about these things and it will become normal. It 3.5 years now and I still cannot come in terms with the reality that my wife betrayed me. I asked her to clear out things, to tell me the truth but she keeps ignoring. When I ask her about a photograph that I found(in which she is on her boyfriend's room) she says she did not remember.. something I cannot believe. Moreover she has been annoying and nagging wife all these years. I don't love her and I have no respect left for her.
We have 2.5 years daughter and I love her very much but I hate my wife for what she did and what she is doing. I am confused, what should I do?