Re: When wayward's file divorce
I filed, but was, essentially forced to. My XW was invested in having it appear as if I was the moving force in the divorce. In reality, despite being given ample opportunity, she would not stop cheating.
But, I guess, in her mind, she felt that , at some point, she would be able to tell our kids I divorced her. Of course, she was not counting on the fact that I went public with the affair and exposed to the entire family.
I also, think, that on boards like these , where folks seem to be more willing to at leat consider reconcilliation, it may be more common that the BS files, after efforts have been unsuccessful
Perhaps among folks not coming to these sites, the cheater knows that being busted means certain divorce, as the betrayed has an abo****e zero tolerance. So, the cheater files pre-empively, perhps to give the appearance that the betrayed was so bad that the cheater filed.