11-04-2011, 10:07 AM
Join Date: Sep 2011
| | When does it stop being an Affair?
This might be a stupid question, but I would like to know when an EA/PA stops being and EA/PA. There appears to be no way that my marriage can be saved (and right now I tend to agree), we are just waiting until the house is sold so that we can go our separate ways (yes, for the most part, we are still in the matrimonial home together for economic reasons), but she does still go to see OM. It is out there that she is seeing someone else. She is convinced that the marriage is over, so she assumes that what she is doing is not an A. I'm looking for a quick exit from my house when it is sold, so that I can move on, but it is very difficult to cope when she is doing this when we are still "together".