New here & just need someone else’s opinion to see if I’m over reacting
A little background. We're in our mid 40’s & have been married 18 years & have one daughter in college.
I consider ourselves happily married & have a great sex life for the most part.
My wife is a reporter & has a anonymous source on the inside for a story she has been working on for several months. He is a ranking police officer ,Our age & married with a couple young kids.
Well the stories have been written & unless something else new comes up it’s done & over. Here’s where I have the Issue.
Since about August until now our phone records show between 1900-2000 texts between the two & 4-5 hours’ worth of phone calls.
I asked her about this & got the response that I was spying on her & I don’t trust her.
She says & this is a quote “geez - we have become friends through all this, but i know he's happily married with two little kids. it's not like he can talk to too many other people about this, and i can only talk to you about it.”
Am I just being paranoid & jealous ? Or should I have reason to be concerned?