11-08-2011, 12:01 PM
Join Date: Mar 2011
Location: Intermountain West
| | Re: Wife is have an long distance EA
Cafe: If I might explain the concerns with payments on bills - etc - if you kick her out - you explain to her that while married, no matter what she does / lives, she's still responsible for half and you WILL hold her to it. She may not pay them now - but she will with the Divorce settlement. Do you live in an at fault state?
I thought the statement you made about how she dressed this morning (all matching including underwear and bra) would tell me that she's got something going local. Matter of fact - she maybe engaged with multiple affairs (that might be local - or have been made available locally - today)
You need to MAN up now. This is when it counts. Anything she is using to have her affairs need to come from her pockets strictly - no cost sharing here.
Get this one shut down and allow no more disrespect. Tell her where the door is and not to let it hit her in the ASZ.
This is where you will lose or gain respect from your child together, but hers too. Don't count on MIL being on your side either.
Expose, expose, expose! Without telling her you are doing this.