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post #16 of 62 (permalink) Old 08-23-2016, 10:19 AM
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Re: Married for 2 weeks and wife is already cheating (sort of)

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File for annulment. And for god's sake stop having sex with her. If you get her pregnant you are screwed.
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Re: Married for 2 weeks and wife is already cheating (sort of)

Just read the second paragraph.

She had been doing this all throughout your courtship and engagement?

That didn't send up any red flags??


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My story: After a night on the town with him, wife exchanged inappropriate texts with her former boss.

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You gave her a chance and blew it...end of story, because if you think fro one moment by giving her another chance she will change you ultimately regret it, and by then you will strapped with children you aren't sure are yours but will be paying for the rest of your life...be smart move on and let her be someone else problem.
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3 steps:

Annulment.

STD screening.

Fix your wife picker, it's broke.

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You should have took care of this before you married her. By continuing on with the relationship and marrying her, you basically were enabling this behavior. She's not going to stop now. You sent her the message that there will be no consequences for contacting other guys. Now you'll have to deal with it. The only real recourse you have now is to annul the marriage. Hopefully you have learned your lesson.

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You married a serial cheater. Get an annulment asap.

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uh, did you guys discuss having an OPEN MARRIAGE before the ceremony? THAT would make some sense. But sexting a guy one week after your honeymoon...that sounds like a nymphomaniac to me. Is the sex in bed so astounding that you are just worn out after 5 or ten goes, and she HAS to find someone else to spell you, or are you just a cuckold paycheck to her?
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. I am not the kind of person to be hasty or rash in my decisions or actions.

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Translation - I am indecisive.

At the least you should ask her to clean herself after she hooked up with the other guy.
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So - i post here because i am somewhat at a loss for what to do
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If you really don't...then I recommend you get on your hands and knees and buy her more phones... all those guys deserve an individual phone....
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I don't know if the guy will be back here but...

She has ZERO respect for you. After rug sweeping it again she has -zero respect.

You're plan "B"....the safe plan.


The bad boy guy she's texting and yes she is cheating is plan"A".

Someone else said it here, she def not wife material. You're in for a huge child support and alimony if you have kids with her.

That is if they are YOUR kids.
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she wanted the wedding, not the marriage
Not the groom to be more precise.
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I can't say anything more than had been said.
Op unfortunate for you she obviously has no respect for you at all.
This early on...get out. You are out the cost of a wedding. Don't come back here in 15 years because you stayed with her and you were trapped there because of kids.



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To prevent a life of misery I highly recommend you drop your W like a bad habit. Do not look back.

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Someone else said it here, she def not wife material. You're in for a huge child support and alimony if you have kids with her.

That is if they are YOUR kids.
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Or worst of all, they aren't your kids but you are STILL paying child support for them, because it's your name on the goddamm birth certificate.
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My story: After a night on the town with him, wife exchanged inappropriate texts with her former boss.

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Fix your wife picker, it's broke.

FIX YER PICKER!!!


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