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post #31 of 62 (permalink) Old 08-23-2016, 03:01 PM
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Re: Married for 2 weeks and wife is already cheating (sort of)

All those in favor of the OP sh!tcanning his cheating bride please raise your hands...









I do believe we have a consensus.

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i guess if you are still reading you have by now figured out what the advice is.
Save yourself some trouble and don't bother to run to other forums with the same situation and expect any different feedback./

if one of your best freinds or brother told you this story, would you actually tell him not to get the **** out immediately?? YOUR WIFE IS CHEATING and the ink is not even dry on the marriage certificate. And who gives a damm about why.????

So if you do not get what you need to do then please get to a therapist who can help you because you are in for one world of hurt if you do not extricate yourself from her.
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As others have said

Annulment as soon as you can.

No sex you don't want to have to wait 9 months for her to have a child that's not yours.

STDs.

Track down the OMs and expose them

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You'll need to get a divorce if you leave her. This is not what an annulment is for. But it should be pretty easy and quick to divorce her since you have not been married very long.

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My story: After a night on the town with him, wife exchanged inappropriate texts with her former boss.


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I forgave her for it, committed to not talk about it to cast shadows from the past and move forward.
She cheated on you, said she was sorry, got you to go on with the wedding, and then got you to agree to "not talk about it" because she wanted there to be absolutely no consequences for her cheating. Amazingly you agreed and are now surprised that she so quickly cheated again. You are a cheaters perfect spouse.

Cheating more than once makes her a serial cheater, and news flash, these two times are only the ones that you know of. Since studies show that most cheating takes place without the spouse ever finding out, it is almost a sure thing that there were many other times that she cheated. Odds are she will cheat again, but I think that you know that already. Before deciding on staying in this marriage, look up the word "cuckold" and see if that is someone that you want to be.
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The OP's story reminds me of @VeryHurt's son's fiancé.
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Re: Married for 2 weeks and wife is already cheating (sort of)

You came here searching for honest answers so an honest answer i will give you.

Unfortunately the second time around you have no one to blame but yourself.

You rugswept this the first time it happened but more importantly you offered up no consequences of whatsoever to her extremely foul behavour.

Talking from experience you need to do a sudden 180 and take drastic measures towards a response that would clearly communicate to her that this shi....t will not be tolerated.

Kick her out immediately. Now is the perfect time to do so. You have no kids and no real commitmentment to each other.

Pack her things and place them in bags out the front door. Any joint accounts? Withdrawl the money and deposit it in your own account. If you support her stop supportring her.

Unless you take the above actions you will find yourself back here in a year or two with a kid in tow and she will own your life.

That said if reconciliation is what your after still do the above. Unless she realises that this nonsense will never be tolerated again and that she is to give you full access to electronic gadgets and emails, facebook, etc than proceed with divorce.

That said be careful if you give her a last chance make this the absolute last time.
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I think we scared him off and doubtful he will come back.

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The OP's story reminds me of @VeryHurt's son's fiancé.
Sadly, none of the stories found in the infidelity section are ever really new.
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NewlyWedGuy, if you're for real, you know what to do my man.

If you don't embody controversy, what you say will become just another part of the media driven culture of stifling thought and debate about issues.
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File for annulment. And for god's sake stop having sex with her. If you get her pregnant you are screwed.
Huh?

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I think you said that backwards....then again science is wonderful nowadays!

Maybe you are dis-sex-lick.

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.

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This may be that guy under the bridge.

You know what they say about rabbits multiplying.

This....This is the nub of the stick that pokes me in the eye when the light of day energizes my optic nerve....SunCMars.... The Allegory of the Cave--> On this, I did a '180' and stepped out.

The Lion in Winter. Invictus..By Will, Shall... Saved from harm by my friends.
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One post wonder?
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