Married for 2 weeks and wife is already cheating (sort of)
Firstly, thanks for taking the time to read my post. I am new to this community and looking for advice from people that may have been in a similar situation.
I have been married for two weeks and back from the honeymoon for about 1 week. I was somewhat surprised to find out that my wife this week and weekend was "sexting" other guys and also asking them for times that they could talk over the phone and assumably meet up. The guy she is mostly doing this with was not a past boyfriend but is someone that she used to "hook up" with.
A little history: this happened before while we were engaged and we worked through it. She was texting this guy and a couple other guys, trading provocative photos, sexting, etc. I confronted her about it, she apologized and committed to stop and put her best efforts forth in our relationship. I forgave her for it, committed to not talk about it to cast shadows from the past and move forward.
And before anyone asks: yes, i found out by checking her text messages, i know - it is wrong, but i will only defend this by saying that she is very self-relevant when she has something to hide (will spare you the details, but it is quite obvious) - i wish i could say we had a better foundation for trust - i genuinely thought we had gotten to that point after the last incident and before we continued on with the engagement and marriage.
So - i post here because i am somewhat at a loss for what to do. I approached this with her in the past and her commitment to stop wasn't held to. Here is the thing: we are (extremely) early on in our marriage, and i do want to make this work - I am not the kind of person to be hasty or rash in my decisions or actions. I would welcome any thoughts or feedback here.
I'll also mention (for context) - we have known each other for 5 years, dated for 2 years, and were engaged for almost a year - also, the intimacy in our relationship is otherwise very healthy.
Thank you very much (in advance) for your consideration on this and any opinions you have to offer.