lisa3girls

It was trash day you see, and for me it is a trigger... it was one of the FEW freaking things he actually did, so I was taking out the trash.

I changed the locks on the condo and the code to the garage-- he was pissed because he said he still had STUFF at the place. I assured him I'd put his stuff as I found it in the cellar hatchway. So I did yesterday put a bunch of stuff... alot of it his hunting gear.

So I stupidly texted him this morning (remember, trash trigger) the following:

You hunting stuff is clogging up my cellar hatch
Today is trash day
I am not feeling generous toward you today
You can draw your own conclusions

Anyway, he came to the condo pretty quick and backed up the truck and started getting his stuff out of my hatchway, but I wasn't done.

I started throwing more of his stuff out the windows (and yelling as it was sailing past his head). The first thing was some lingirie he liked me to wear and I yelled... maybe your "cword" would want to wear this TOO since she already had everything ELSE of mine... Then I threw out his herpes medication screaming that SHE should be needing this soon too... (yes he gave it to me when we were dating, nice huh?).

Ok, so I am a 180 fail today, but you know what, it felt good, he just looked at the ground the whole time like a dog with a tail between his legs and frankly I think he DESERVED to hear it.

HerToo

I don't know what others here will think, but I like what you did.

Shaggy

Well played!
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lisa3girls

He certainly deserved it... looked at the ground the entire time.

that_girl

I cried the first time I had to take out the trash by myself...as it was hubs' job.

I stood out there and cried. lol.

As far as what you did....screw it. I'd do it too. It's not like you texted him about missing him taking out the trash.

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rrrbbbttt

Just don't have that weakness of conscious and apologize. Leave it and go back to the 180. Sometimes you need to get things off your chest but don't dwell on it.

Just file it away and don't bring it up and if he does don't acknowledge it and say I don't know what you are talking about.

Let him stew about it not you.

that_girl

do not apologize.

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lisa3girls

Oh I am NOT sorry... he deserved that and then some... he is fortunate his family jewels are still intact right now.

chapparal

Nothing is more attractive than a person who stands up for themselves. Good job.

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tacoma

I know I`ve been telling you not to have any contact with him and just leave him alone but I really can`t criticize what I just read while being honest with myself.



Thanks for the visual Lisa, made me laugh.

Don`t take it back whatever you do.

Go back to dark now girl!!

ing

You went mental.
You would have scared the **** out of him!

Go dark and he will totally freak out.

I think you did nothing wrong. Just a little vent.

morituri

Well done!

Fvck him! As I told Apple - and I still mean it - there are millions of men who would give their right testicle to have a woman like you.

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daisygirl 41

Lisa - Thanks for that. Having a bad day and your post made me smile.

Well done on ur freak out! Sometimes things just need to be said!

hopefully you are getting your mojo back. Been keeping up on your post and you have seemed very down lately. Hugs to you.
My H of 18 years is on the verge of moving out. so i feel your pain x

lisa3girls

Thanks all... I am glad I could bring you all a little smile.... I thought throwing the lingerie and calling the woman the c-word was particularly clever. Honestly, he's had THAT coming since the first day I found out.

lisa3girls

Thank you... I hope you are right... I feel like I will never ever have anyone again right now.