11-17-2011, 05:22 PM
Join Date: Aug 2010
| | Re: My Husband had a One Night Stand...
Originally Posted by AKAmbo
I'm having a really hard time trying to figure out what I want to do. yesterday I found out my Husband had a one night stand.
About three weeks ago, we got into an argument and he decided to leave with his buddy. They went out drinking and he told me he blew all of his money at the strip club. He failed to mention GOING home with someone from the bar... the timeing was ALL bad. He didn't know it at the time-but his mother and I had planned to suprise him by bring his dad and brother for a week 1/2 visit. He cheated on me the night before they got in... I'm actually greatful he didn't tell me right after-otherwise I'm not sure how the week and half would have went. A little sidenote- I have three dogs of my own, and therefore can't really LEAVE the house or situation... so had he told me the day it happened I would have been stuck with his whole family in MY house for nearly two weeks. BUT- he lied over and over and over agian. I found out beacuse he bad mouthed the ONE friend he told, and his friend got mad and put him on blast...told me everything.
Now- I don't know what to do... I've been reading the other post's and I'm thankful that he didn't have an actual affair- but a ONS is not a whole lot better? I think we can work this out, but I'm afraid I'll never trust him again. He know's I deserve better I don't know if I want him to stay becuase I actually want him to stay-or becuase I don't want to be alone. I know that's not healthy... I don't know...
so he got all drunk when he was mad at you and then had a ONS
lots of bad decisions there. dose he drink often when hes mad?
hmmm. how old is he? sounds like a youngster.