11-18-2011, 01:23 PM
Join Date: May 2011
Location: North East UK
| | Re: Questions about 180
The 180 is not a tool for divorce, or separation OR for bringing him back.
It is a method employed so you can take care of yourself and empower yourself so you are not left floundering whether you D or R.
Changing your dance will make him take notice and as you 180 yourself and develop a new found confidence and respect for yourself, he may just start to realise what he's about to lose.
It can work in favour of the relationship, but it WILL work in favour of YOU!
I haven't really thought about the future that much, but when I die I think I'll go back to doing whatever I was doing for the fifteen billion years before I was born.
Last edited by Numb-badger; 11-18-2011 at 01:40 PM.