awesome, your wifes a serial cheater. Even better, you are reinforcing her behaviors. Further corrupting her already broken moral compass and helping to permanently damage your own wife.
never considered trying to pull off a moral lobotomy on your own wife and the mother of your children!
Im not positive that there is only one OM, but Im pretty sure. We got drunk on sat night, and she passed out, so I was able to check out her phone. All of the texts to the OM were gone, but she questioned numerous other people to ask if they had ever met up with an online friend.
She mentions the OM to them, and by a pet name to one freind in particular. I would imagine if there was another guy she wouldve mentioned him also.
Seems like your wife is getting very attached to the OM. And seeing how you already gave her a SECOND CHANCE to not go and screw around, you should really rethink your relationship with her.
I give you credit. You did something I wanted to try and do. You caught her in the act. You have all the evidence and proof you need..there is no way of her to lie to you about what kind of conversations she had with him, or if she sent pictures and what they were of. You know it all. And some people would consider the lengths you went to catch her..a little creepy..Im not gonna lie. You went more than the extra mile with this.
I hope you learned something from it. Your wife has a serious commitment issue..and for whatever reason, she is pursuing men on the computer to go and meet them.
Heres my advice and I hope you take it. Book the hotel room. Have her meet you there. Thats the only way you will know for sure that she was going to have sex with this guy. Because if you spill the beans before hand, She will lie through her teeth and say she was never going to do it. I think you need this. So you can realize shes doing you dirty.
I don't think she will meet him without camming at least once. If she did meet him at the hotel, we are looking at a woman who is very very stupid too.
Regardless or not, he should go for it. u can manipulate a webcam anyways. He could blame it on work..he could blame it on lighting..the point is, if she really believes she is falling for this guy, she'll do whatever. I dont think cheaters think when they do things.
Most likely they would meet in the bar downstairs first and not in the hotel room.
Lately, my wife has made it clear that she wants to have a couple of drinks first.
Well, regardless or not where she meets "Him" if its a guy shes talking about screwing around with..and she's going to a hotel to see him..or anywhere to see him for that matter...that should be enough. You dont have to catch them in the act itself to know what she was gonna do.
1. Shes not telling you that shes meeting up with a guy she met online.
2. He is NOT a friend of hers..he is a stranger.
DOnt justify any of it..all she has to do is walk into anywhere going to see him, and boom..they were gonna bang. Mark my words.
Im not positive that there is only one OM, but Im pretty sure. We got drunk on sat night, and she passed out, so I was able to check out her phone. All of the texts to the OM were gone, but she questioned numerous other people to ask if they had ever met up with an online friend.
She mentions the OM to them, and by a pet name to one freind in particular. I would imagine if there was another guy she wouldve mentioned him also.
You have other issues that you need to deal with along with her infidelity. She obviously has a toxic support group that encourages this type of behavior and issues with alcohol. This is turning into one hell of a train wreck. Please get your wife some serious help and soon.
Remember one thing----right now you have all the evidence you need----you KNOW she is cheating on YOU, and you can prove it.
There is always the possibility that the "entrapper" could screw up, and if you blow your cover----you GIVE AWAY, everything you have on her----she will turn this around so fast---and believe me she could hit you with abuse, entrapment, psychological manipulation, and who knows what else----plus she will blameshift, and legitimately, till the cows come home
You have your evidence---PULL THE TRIGGER---do not screw this up.
she questioned numerous other people to ask if they had ever met up with an online friend.
She mentions the OM to them, and by a pet name to one freind in particular
The fact that your wife is openly discussing the OM with her friends means that she is disrespecting you and your marriage to them. This not only reflects badly on your wife, but also on the toxic friends that she keeps. Clearly your wife does not consider any of them to be friends of the marriage.
Do you remember Rupert Holmes minor follow up hit after 'Escape (The Pina Colada Song)? It called 'Him'. Despite the song having a beautiful melody, the words are brutal in their meaning of the kind of betrayal we deal here daily.
Him
Rupert Holmes
Over by the window, there's a pack of cigarettes.
Not my brand you understand,
Sometimes the girl forgets
She forgets to hide them
I know who left those smokes behind
She'll say, oh, he's just a friend,
And I'll say, oh, I'm not blind
to..
(chorus)
Him him him, what's she gonna do about him?
She's gonna have to live without him,
It's him or it's me, me me,
No one gets to get it for free
It's me or it's him.
Don't know what he looks like,
Don't know who he is.
Don't know why she thought that I
would say what's mine is his.
I dont want to own her,
But I can't let her have it both ways.
Three is one too many of us,
She leaves with me or stays
with..
(chorus)
Him him him, what's she gonna do about Him?
She's gonna have to live without him,
It's him or it's me, me me,
No one gets to get it for free
It's me or it's him.
If she wants him she can have him,
Just exactly how we once were,
Its goodbye to he and I,
and back to me and her,
Without..
(chorus)
Him, him, him, what's she gonna do about him?
She's gonna have to live without him,
It's him or it's me, me, me,
No one gets to get it for free,
Time for me to make the girl see,
It's me or it's him.
I think its over. I just dont want to do it before thanksgiving. We have a lot of relatives in town, and I am going to wait until Sunday.
I dont want to wait for her to show up to meet him. I dont think it is necessary at this point. I have seen enough in her actions, to see her intentions.
I dont want to give up, but I think she needs a wakeup call. I plan on asking for a divorce.
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