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Re: Here goes nothing... (sorry, very long)

Originally Posted by ButtPunch View Post
I have been reconciled for a while now. I truly believed my WW deserved a second chance. She was not the usual
selfish cheater you read about here on TAM. It's been over four years now, and this had to have been the hardest part
to reconcile. Allowing yourself to understand, giving her a second chance doesn't mean you don't respect yourself.

I still have these feelings time to time but don't regret my decision one bit.
Yes every situation is unique and I agree some may deserve it depending on the situation. Provided a BS gets everything that's discussed here it goes along way in helping the BS overcome that feeling. But the feeling exists non-the-less and can be difficult to manage.

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