Re: Here goes nothing... (sorry, very long)
No point in any monitoring if you're resigned to divorce. If you believe that you may choose reconciliation at some point, though, I'd definitely recommend it.
Also, depending on the type of phone that she uses, it may be possible to restore deleted texts, pics, etc from backups. If you believe that you may change your mind about reconciliation, I'd recommend that as well.
Have you communicated your intention to divorce to her? If so, what was her reaction?
Has she indicated what would seem to be an honest desire to reconcile?
ETA: I wouldn't recommend going the polygraph route prior to establishing a somewhat comprehensive monitoring solution, as you'll obviously want to catch any web searches along the lines of "how to beat a polygraph".
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Last edited by GusPolinski; 10-27-2016 at 12:15 PM.