Re: Wife still cheating. I just filed for D
I hate to tell you this but all her ranting and ravings aren’t to get you back, it is for control. She wants to eat her cake and have it too. This affair has little to do with you or even the other man, it is about her and getting her way, much like a spoiled child. I wish I had a plan to help you make her see the error of her ways, but that is not likely to happen. This is a conclusion she has to come to on her own. The only thing that you can control is you and to be honest you have actually been doing well, though it may not seem like it at times.
You know that she wants to bait you into arguments, this is to get attention from you, since you are no longer pining after her. While she will try your patients you still need to treat her with a certain amount of respect for your children’s sake, not hers. Do not long for her demise or revenge, instead hope for her to get a grip on life, again this is for your children’s sake. They benefit from her being a well-adjusted parent to them. Hope you and your family have a very Merry Christmas.