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My crazy ex easily gained over a 100 pounds after Mr. Perfect dumped her. It didn't take her much time to add the pounds on either. If she hasn't been dumped already the relationship is most likely in the tank.
My XW is now on POF..... for those of you who know me away from here.... you'll be getting a few

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I have talked to quite a few women on POF recently. It's a good confidence booster. But it is amazing how every divorced woman on there was cheated on by her husband. I have yet to meet one yet that admits to cheating herself. Something tells me they may be lying.

I have told WW at least twice over the past few months that I am done for good. But she probably believes that since I haven't said it in a couple months but have just been ignoring instead, that there is still hope.

And I doubt she is pregnant. OM has been fixed (it's a shame that I know that), and also the weight is distributed differently than it was when she was pregnant with both kids.

And her affair seems to have been a little different from the standard. She has dumped OM several times before the separation and fought a bunch. They fought like a married couple before Dday and after. So there is no telling what this crazy b$tch is going to do over the next year or the rest of oir lives for that matter.
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I have talked to quite a few women on POF recently. It's a good confidence booster. But it is amazing how every divorced woman on there was cheated on by her husband. I have yet to meet one yet that admits to cheating herself. Something tells me they may be lying.

Re-writing history... heard same song n dance meself

I have told WW at least twice over the past few months that I am done for good. But she probably believes that since I haven't said it in a couple months but have just been ignoring instead, that there is still hope.

And I doubt she is pregnant. OM has been fixed (it's a shame that I know that), and also the weight is distributed differently than it was when she was pregnant with both kids.

And her affair seems to have been a little different from the standard. She has dumped OM several times before the separation and fought a bunch. They fought like a married couple before Dday and after. So there is no telling what this crazy b$tch is going to do over the next year or the rest of oir lives for that matter.
WWs hear what they want to hear. If it is not what they want to hear, they will re-write it.

So they fight a lot.... po poo-bear!

Until she snags a guy, she will convince herself you will always want her back.

She has lied to herself enough, she believes her own lies.

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WWs hear what they want to hear. If it is not what they want to hear, they will re-write it.

So they fight a lot.... po poo-bear!

Until she snags a guy, she will convince herself you will always want her back.

She has lied to herself enough, she believes her own lies.
The crazy ones always believe the ex's are obsessed with them and would never not want them back. They run a storyline in their head and anything you say is meaningless as they just warp it to fit the storyline.

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The crazy ones always believe the ex's are obsessed with them and would never not want them back. They run a storyline in their head and anything you say is meaningless as they just warp it to fit the storyline.
You mean like a US Press Secretary????

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When I finally divorced my ex-wife in 2012 after dealing with her crap for decades (10-year affair, denied for another 6 years, her joining a crazy cult, etc.) She apparently went all weepy and unable to do anything for weeks! According to our daughter, she was a basket case trying to say to her how much she loved me and that i was so wrong about her.

OMG. The rugsweeping and gaslighting ramped up for the end game.

I kept true to myself and moved on.

I bought a house 600 miles away from where we were and I've remarried. Most is good. However, I got an HPV-related cancer from her whoring ways infecting me.

She, of course, didn't have it progress to such a thing.

Her cheating is the gift that keeps on giving.

Regardless, I am so glad to be rid of her.

I hope you stay away from your soon to be ex-wife.

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When I finally divorced my ex-wife in 2012 after dealing with her crap for decades (10-year affair, denied for another 6 years, her joining a crazy cult, etc.) She apparently went all weepy and unable to do anything for weeks! According to our daughter, she was a basket case trying to say to her how much she loved me and that i was so wrong about her.

OMG. The rugsweeping and gaslighting ramped up for the end game.

I kept true to myself and moved on.

I bought a house 600 miles away from where we were and I've remarried. Most is good. However, I got an HPV-related cancer from her whoring ways infecting me.

She, of course, didn't have it progress to such a thing.

Her cheating is the gift that keeps on giving.

Regardless, I am so glad to be rid of her.

I hope you stay way from your soon to be ex-wife.
God bless you sir,
You are the epitome of strength after such abuse.
I hope your life is happy and you are good and well now.
You sure deserve peace and calmness.

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