Re: Wife still cheating. I just filed for D
He did cheat on his wife before with at least one other girl that I am aware of. I discussed that with WW right after D-day, but she had an excuse for him and said he wouldn't do that to her. I think her excuse was that his wife was so jealous and hard to get along with all the time that it drove him to it.
OM did stalk and whine and cry and threaten to kill himself the times she dumped him, but I don't know if that "wore her down" or she just missed the "high" and wanted it back.
I feel kind of sorry for her getting herself into this mess and I feel bad about how her life is going to turn out if she continues on this path. I can easily see her broke and trashy and just bouncing from one failed relationship to another for the rest of her life. And I feel bad for my kids that they won't have a mother they can be proud of. And I'm sure she will run across an abuser or child molester eventually.
But she did it to herself and it's not my responsibility anymore. I will try to keep the kids safe and away from any bad men she may eventually bring around, but that's about all I can do.