Re: It's a VERY fresh wound and it HURTS
Only YOU can decide if he changes. NOT HIM. He can say or do anything he wants, but until he can demonstrate with clear, CONSISTENT actions, (for a period of time that you decide the duration of), true remorse and change, you simply can't trust him.
Because now it's not just about your welfare and future, it's about your children's as well. He's been lying to them, too.
"If you deliberately plan on being less than you are capable of being, then I warn you that you'll be unhappy for the rest of your life."
~ Abraham Maslow