Re: It's a VERY fresh wound and it HURTS
Only YOU can decide if he changes. NOT HIM. He can say or do anything he wants, but until he can demonstrate with clear, CONSISTENT actions, (for a period of time that you decide the duration of), true remorse and change, you simply can't trust him.
Because now it's not just about your welfare and future, it's about your children's as well. He's been lying to them, too.
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.
~ A.A. Milne