Thorburn

I do not know how to check her phone. She claims she threw it away. I do not know how to access this account. I know where it was purchases (it is in our checking account) and she bought an ATT & T phone plan.

sadcalifornian

Skeptics always bring up the fact that polygraph is not 100% accurate, but then again what in life really is 100% accurate? It is accurate enough that FBI and various law enforcements do use it worldwide. Also, it is admissible in court for civil suit.

Also, you must know that the polygraph is a very invasive tool and taking such test is somewhat traumatic experiment on its own. It will jolt her into realizing that such tool can always drag out any dirty secret she may have thought she could take to her grave.

Shaggy

So look on the trash can. Also call it if you ave the number. Do you have access to it online?

Is she writing a NC letter?
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Thorburn

NC letter. Yes I have a good sample and it will be done this weekend. I want to be there when it is mailed.

The phone - I believe she claimed she threw it away weeks ago. The trash is already gone. I checked it.

She claims she does not know the number. I do not know my cell phone number unless I look it up.

I do not know how to look this up. I need to know the acount number and she claims she did not set up an account online. All I need to do is find the phone number and the account number and find out if there is a way to access the account.

Shaggy

How did she pay for the phone? Using a credit card?
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morituri

As Shaggy said, therapy should be an absolute must and non-negotiable condition for you to continue in the marriage.

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Thorburn

Yes. I called att&t and they said I need the phone number trying to call radio shack to see if they have the information

Thorburn

she started counseling

ladybird

Getting the data off of a computer is pretty easy. You can always install a file recovery program. They are pretty cheap and you can usually get them for a trial basis, but if you want to restore anything, you will have to pay for the licence.

Also there is a nice little feature on most operating systems called system restore.. Using this feature, you can set the computer back to a certain date. It will show internet history and everything from that date. The catch is your system had to have been set up to do back ups, if not then you cant use it... When you start the process it will tell you if there are back ups or not.

For the one that is not working you may have to get it fixed before you can restore any data on it...


Hope this helps.

Shaggy

Can you see the detail in the cc bill? Can you find the transaction details?

Was it a pay as you go, or a real phone with an account?
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Shaggy

Wait, back up... She threw the phone away weeks ago? But dday was last week.?
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Thorburn

I did not press her on the phone as far as when she threw it away. I plan to do so this weekend.

I called Radio shack and it was a Go-phone and she bought $15.00 of air time. They are not sure of the phone number other other then the last 4 numbers and the area code. They believe the 3 additional digits are one of two combos.

I believe I figure it out but am not 100%. The number I call is disconnected which would make sense.

She paid $80.00 in October for more air time on AT&T using one of our credit cards.

I will call AT&T tomorrow to see if this number was hers and see if I can get the information of phone calls made and texts made.

I am not in hyper mode about but am following the advice given on this post to do so.

I just want to be able to verify what she has told me.

lordmayhem

I hate those disposable phones, you see them in Wal Mart, Radio Shack, Supermarkets, etc. I can understand the need for those who can't or don't have regular calling plans, but they are useful tools for those who want to cheat.

Fortunately for Thorburn, the WW used a card to purchase the phone and air time. In my case, I was looking for any unexplained ATM withdrawals or any of our checks written for cash.

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Bartimaus

You have been in denial and now you seem ready to have the wool pulled over your eyes by a woman that has no conscience. Sorry everyone for being so blunt but today was my divorce day and this guys wife sounds so much like my wife that I feel sorry for his hesitation to do what is right, and that is to divorce her. But hey pal,get her to admit on a VAR and use it to get child custody if possible. She cheated man,she willingly had sex with him and it was premeditated. She so conviently had their bed setup for their asses to stay warm in your car. Preplanned,premeditated and worked out in detail for their pleasure and comfort. Doesn't this tell you anything about her? How cold and ruthless she is to murder your heart and soul? Like my wife, she has abused you and murdered you!
The more I read on here,the more that I see how cunning and crafty my ex was to try and not get caught. She knew all about the methods and ways of catching cheaters and covered every base so.. sing this Eagles song to her '....you set it up so well so carefully, ain't it funny how your new life didn't change things,your still the same old girl you used to be you can't hide your lying eyes,and your smile.....'. I suggest you sing this to her as you deliver the divorce papers to her.

Shaggy

If you have the area code and last four that only leaves the remaining 999 and a bunch of those don't work like 555 so a brute force dialing effort might find the phone.
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