Re: new here: proof of impending PA, do I intervene?
An isolated incident initiated by a hot sister BEFORE vows spoken, where OP nixed the sex and cut off things.
Weakness the that kind of nude sexual pressure would be hard for any man not to show interest in. Any man that says it wouldn't phase him is a liar.
He stopped, he didn't go back for more. That shows loyalty to me.
I would not tell his wife. Her crap was premeditated and after vows were spoken--- totally different.
I think wonky ninja is wrong in comparing the two situations.
One is after marriage, premeditated, Pursued by wife, no conscience---- CAUGHT.
The op, IF his story is real and accurate, stopped the contact, didn't go further, and never let the sis tempt him again.
How can the two be compared?
I agree that if the wife or the groom fooled around with a sibling, I'd say don't marry the cheater. But if op's story is accurate, he was seduced and resisted. I see that differently.