Re: new here: proof of impending PA, do I intervene?
trying to read all the responses...and juggling a ton of work at the same time, stressing, hands trembling, havent eaten in a while, my blood pressure must be thru the roof.
As far as I know our marriage is great, thats the thing, what the hell is going on? we have good sex regularly, she doesnt work, has everything she wants, I cant comprehend it. In the past I have had a couple issues with her overspending and getting us in moderate debt w/o telling me, and I have had to bail us out twice with my stock options, thats about all the problems I have had with her and the last one was like 5 years ago.
The cell phone account is my own account with my own SSN, am not violating any company policy however am sure that what am doing would be frowned upon because I am using sensitive and proprietary company tools and means to gain access to this information.
I feel like I want to save the marriage, I am stumped by all of this, I keep asking myself what could I have done??? we have regular dates, we enjoy time together, I dont get along with her inlaws but thats not new.
I think am just going to confront her and tell her I grabbed her phone one night while she slept, I read that somewhere else....what should I expect her reaction to be? I feel like I might freeze up and not know how to react or say the right thing.....this is paralyzing to me