Re: new here: proof of impending PA, do I intervene?
You most definitely should intervene. If you don't fight for your family, she will wantonly bang this guy. Once he claims her body, your whole family will suffer. Something I've learned on these boards is that WWs don't care about the impact on their kids. They say that they do but their actions reveal the exact opposite. I mean your wife is planning a trip to fvck another man and using your daughter as cover. Talk about being vile.
But your thinking, "why should I fight for a cheater?" Because you have 3 kids with her. If there is anything in life worth fighting for, that is it. The problem is being a SAHM with older kids, she's craving excitement. To her you're her co-parent that she has to bang in order to keep the peace. Now along comes douche ex-cop, who's probably arrogantly confident and he's spitting game at her and she eats that up.
You shouldn't have to fight for her but if you don't it's broken homes for your kids. With her being a SAHM, the courts will eat you alive. Her mind is on getting some but you need to snap her out of it with BOLD ACTION>
You MUST expose this POS to his wife. She can be your biggest help.
You MUST expose to her parents and family. Shame works wonders.
If possible, get D papers filed.
Move your money to another account and cancel credit cards.
Only boldness will shock a WW. They only understand strength.