Re: Maybe this is just what we needed?
Where is the remorse? And where exaclty is either the love or the compassion for you? Where is any respect for you?
What I read was a wife who wanted to cheat, you said no, so she walked out and began divorcing you.
She also cheaed several times. Now you ate what the fall back because the other guy wasn't good in bed?
Are you sure the OM wasn't actually in the picture before she left? Most often in these stories it comes out that they were already in a relationship and the rest is a coverup to mske it look like they met after she left you. I'd bet my own money that they already had something set up.
Unless she has an ambition to bethesda town tramp, no woman does what she has done.
The old marriage is done. She left and she deliberately cheated. It done.
So the question, is what is she offering to make it worth your while to give her a shot at dating you again? And do you even want to waste anymore of your life with someone who so callously dumps you?
And what about next time she gets the hankering for strange?
At a minimum finish the divorce and she can ask you for a date. If you eventually are her back, which I advise against, have a prenup in place that if she does anything like this again - she gets 10% of the family assets, and nothing else.
But honestly, before you even consider it, answer for yourself, and have her answer the question I started this post with.
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