Re: Would You Leave the Dude?
Pixel, I feel I must say this to you: You cannot change your past reactions to his infidelity. Don't beat yourself up about it. Today is a new day, and you know he is again being inappropriate. Enough is enough, and you've given the benefit of the doubt, given him time to change, ect. Today this is about YOU. You are driving the bus on this now, and I want you to get that fight in you. He should respect you enough to cut the crap and be honest or you should walk. Make sure you are there mentally before you issue that ultimatum and be prepared to know he is lying to you (if he says nothing is going on) and simply, quietly, take your life back. I wouldn't fight or argue..I would calmly say, "I know what is going on and it's unfortunate that you won't admit it. I need to be in a relationship with an honest partner. I wish you the best."
It may be the hardest thing you ever do to stay calm and collected, but get yourself there mentally before you start the convo. That's just how I would do it!