Re: Why would anyone want to be married to someone who they have to give a polygraph
This is another great one that is just not factual, if you stay married you are never out of infidelity. It is a part of your marriage forever. It actually becomes the defining moment of your marriage and a lot of your relationship has to account for it. In a healthy marriage, this is not the case. Again read the posts of people 5, 10, 25 years out. It will always be mentioned, it will always be thought of every anniversary, if your kid is cheated on, when you see movies where infidelity is part of the story or hear about friends that were cheated on. There is no getting out of infidelity if you stay in the relationship where there is infidelity.
People always advise to get out of infidelity but never tell the truth that the only way to get out of infidelity is to leave the partner who cheated.
what are you talking about? i dont think about any of that stuff. i never really think of my wifes past infidelity except when i am reading threads on TAM.
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