Re: Do Cheaters prefer Married or Single Partners?
I don't know....not saying guys like him don't exist. I just don't think they are the norm. Why would any of them ever bother to post here? Also, it seemed like a boastful post. I am a serial cheater too, but I don't post details of my exploits. What would be the point of that other than to rile people up. Clearly the post stuck, because years later people are still referring to it. I don't know....I guess every serial cheater is different. All I can say is all of that "game" he talked about in his post honestly isn't even necessary. Also half the time its the woman that pursues the affair or at the very least puts her self out there in such a way that it makes it obvious. I have long maintained that I never bedded a married woman. Well....that isn't true. The first one lied about her status. But the other two didn't. All I can say is it did NOT take a any game or a long period of flirtation, or compliments, etc. etc. There was immediate mutual sexual attraction, and we followed through on it. If anything I think sometimes we put too much emphasis on the compliments/attention aspect of why married women have affairs. For a lot of them it really is about the sex. With that said I never specifically targeted married women. But if they were interested. I didn't say no.
I think it could educate people.
Honest question, RH. Do you just not want to face up to what you do?
One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman's emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trustability, and she can relax. -- David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man