12-13-2011, 01:45 PM
Join Date: Apr 2011
| | Exposure when divorcing.
I've used this forum often without posting, but I don't know what to do now.
My H was unfaithful, an EA and PA (just making out, 99.9% sure that's all that happened). I did the 180 with good results - he committed to me, ceased contact with the OW, gave me passwords to his email and facebook, limited access to his phone (he isn't home a lot, so he could have deleted things but I trusted him enough with the email and facebook passwords). I told him that the smallest amount of infidelity again would make me leave and never look back. I am young enough to find someone else and we have no children. I have no reason to stay besides my love for him.
I recently discovered a hidden email address and to my (not so) surprise, he was signed up for numerous dating websites. And by dating websites, I mean no strings attached sex websites. I confronted him, he said he made the profiles a while ago and never looked back... but it really doesn't matter to me, I'm out.
The question is: Do I expose him? I want to - but I'm sure it's mostly out of revenge. I am angry and want everyone to know that he's a pig, that it isn't my fault. But if I'm just walking - is there any point to it? I also never exposed to the OW boyfriend... I'm not sure if I should still do that. I probably should have originally but I stupidly didn't. I know the OW boyfriend is not a stand up guy, he has cheated on her before and is a really ****ty guy. I don't care to do the right thing for him, he's just as bad as the two of them.