Nothing much has changed, he is back at home in his own room. I have started work and he may start soon. We don't talk to each other, I'm completely ignoring him. He cooks and cleans, takes care of children till I come, goes out after that or locks himself in his room.
Mil came this evening and I left them with kids and stayed in my room.
No one is talking about the dinosaur in the room. I'm just not interested. I feel angry from time to time but try and distract myself. Looks like he thinks time will help him rug sweep easily. I don't want a D because of many reasons but I also won't put up with his crap so basically I'm still thinking of a plan that will work.
I went for the I C and didn't told the therapist all in a short summary without much emotions. The therapist feels he needs therapy and want to see us both next week