Join Date: Feb 2014
Location: Away and beyond in a hot place
Re: What's going on?
So sorry, but its not enough evidence based on what you have, but keep digging and watch the accounts of those women.
He was obviously 'making friends' when you were not around, and that is why he is hiding you now from his colleagues. Insist on meeting his work mates or invite them for dinner. Go out to the car in the morning and introduce yourself if he doesn't do it soon, be bold. Make him as uncomfortable as possible but do it in the nicest possible way, bowl them over with your charm.
The two maids you have, where did they come from, did he have them before you arrived? How were they recruited? They might know something?
On another note, you are alone in a new country with young kids, this kind of thing can prey on your mind if you do not have an outlet and drive you crazy. I suggest you confide in a close friend or sibling, at least to get things off your chest and keep your balance, this is a heavy load to carry alone. Try to get out of the house and make friends with the expats there, get to know others at your kids school, etc. You need this to keep yourself moving.
Last edited by aine; 02-02-2017 at 06:06 AM.