Join Date: Feb 2014
Location: Away and beyond in a hot place
Re: What's going on?
He is backpeddling furiously and trying to make you seem as if you are the one who is crazy, classic gaslighting. I wonder how he can explain his terrible treatment of you, his reluctance to introduce you to his colleagues, his willingness to let you go back home.
When they try and turn it over on you comments like 'you are accusing me' 'i haven't crossed a line' 'i have done nothing wrong' etc these are all cheater speak.
He will hope you will settle down and it will all go away. Tell his family, do NOT let him gaslight you into accepting what he says, your gut did not lie.