Join Date: Feb 2016
Location: Somewhere else...
Re: Big fight
Since she likes older men, which is why she married one, I'd say you have reason to wonder. Not be concerned, but wonder. I think your husband shouldn't have argued with you, he should have simply ''unfriended'' her if he saw how upset you were. If you're a normally reasonable person, and have been married a while, he should put your feelings above what some random chick at a gym thinks.
I have friends who are men, and my fiance is mutual friends with most of them. But, if I started adding men I meet at the gym to my FB friend list, no matter their age, my fiance would wonder. She's not interested in being friends, that's my guess. She's interested in getting male attention, and your husband shouldn't have accepted the friend request. He should unfriend her if he cares at all about your feelings. The fact that he made a big deal about it is telling, though.
Sometimes, you fall in love with the most unexpected person, at the most unexpected time. ~ Unknown