Blindasabat

I was going to direct this just to the men but then I remembered Jennifer Garner could really kick butt in alias, Since I'm heading to court its off the table and I've had to play it smart but while not helpfull for my case it would give me a great release for my anger
I know its rather caveman/7th grade and she is the real problem but this a-hole gets away with murder while my world goes up in flames. my question did you do it?
how did you feel afterwards?
do you regret having done it?
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Dexter Morgan

No, didn't kick the OM's butt, although it would have been nice. Would never do it.

If I wasn't going to kick my x-wife's ass, no reason to kick OM's. My wife at the time is who I needed to be more pissed at.

baldmale

While it is "unfair" that the OM gets away scott-free, at the end of the day it was my wife who made promises and vows to me, not the OM. So, no I never confronted him.

But I would still like to tell his wife what a scumbag she married. Maybe someday soon...

joe kidd

Wanted to, didn't. Getting thrown in jail and losing my job was not worth the brief moment of satisfaction.

always_hopefull

The fact that she is accross the country helped deter me. However, I have since found out where she works and who her friends are on FB, I was blocked before, but since used another account to locate her. Daily I fight the urge to send an email to all her relatives and co-workers letting them know what kind of person she really is. I really hope the Karma bus comes soon, I don't know how much longer I can hold out.

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Beowulf

Hmmm, sometimes the karma bus needs a little extra help?

AppleDucklings

No, although the thought definitely did cross my mind.

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tacoma

A couple of times in my youth when girlfriends cheated.

It felt really good.

Blindasabat

I bet it did!
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morituri

No. Mine was murdered a few months back.

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Blindasabat

seriously? talk about closure and the class of person your ex chose wow
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lordmayhem

OM is a thousand miles away across the border in Canada, so no. I did send him an email telling him he's lucky he's there and if I ever met him in the Philippines that he's get tuned up.

On the other hand, if OM had been local and it had gone PA, I wouldn't do anything because her ass would be out of the house.

In my first marriage, I didn't get the chance because when OM saw me in the diner (their meeting place), his eyes bulged out of its sockets, before I could stand up, he turned and ran.

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zelika

In cases where the other woman is not someone I know and have no pre existing relationship with, I do not see the logic in being mad at the other woman really. What possible reason do you have to be mad at her? Your spouse is the one with the responsibility to your relationship, not her. There's a good chance she doesn't even know he's married. I am actually very good friends with a woman that was having an affair with my ex. I found out, got a hold of her just wanting to hear her side of things. Turns out she had no clue and was just as pissed as I was and that ****sucker got it up the ass from BOTH sides. It was beautiful, it really was. If you decide to contact her and she's a total ***** about it, go ahead and be mad. No one will blame you but remember, holding a grudge is letting someone live rent free in your head.

In the case where you know her, well then I would knock the ***** out. I did this once, she wasn't really the other woman since I doubt my ex would have touched her, but who knows. She was obsessed with him and determined to break us up so she could have him all to herself. I work with thoroughbred race horses, and she used to work for the same trainer I did. She had the audacity to show up at my barn one day so she could visit all her old horses and friends, KNOWING I worked there still. I cant stop her from coming to the track but I can definitely have her leave my barn, so I did exactly that. She walked on in and said hi like nothing was wrong, so I politely suggested to her that she leave my barn immediately and if she did not I would be calling security. She got lippy with me and said some things about my bf and how she had no idea why he would date such a *****. I lost it and then she lost teeth. I can't take all the credit though. I punched her in the mouth and the saddle stand she fell on did the rest of the work for me. It felt really ****ing good. It really really felt really ****ing good. Security was called by someone else, and luckily for me barn security is well aware of the story between us. They have NEVER had any problems with me (plus I kind of brown nose them a bit for this exact reason) and didn't think I even had that in me (and frankly neither did I), she had been in trouble with security more than a few times and was on her last shot. In the end she was permanently banned from the track and I got NOTHING. So proud of myself for that. Go ahead and bring it on karma, it was worth it! Or was that karma in action???

f1r3f1y3

You need to keep a cool head during these things.

I kicked my wife out the house and thereafter treated the breakup like business.

Keep emotion out of it and BE SMART.

Numb-badger

I wonder whatever for!

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