Re: Sharing the coping version
Please don't have children with this man. A terrible husband who cheats multiple times (when you were getting married!) will be an awful father -- parenthood makes things tougher, not better! He may like you, but he doesn't love you -- you don't cheat multiple times on someone you love. You deserve better.
So do your future children a favor by finding a better father for them than this guy will ever be. Definitely do not bring a child into this relationship, you will be only giving him another person who will be even more defenseless to his emotional abuse.