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post #1 of 80 (permalink) Old 02-25-2017, 05:58 PM Thread Starter
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Another teacher sex story, it's like no one watches the news

This upstanding god fearing snowflake waited until her husband was gone before inviting the lad around and doing the deed. She got caught, her life is probably over and seems the husband (and good on him too) swiftly filed for divorce..none of this I'll stand with you and forgive you for banging a teenage boy 90 times.

Payson dance teacher charged with raping male student | Deseret News

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This upstanding god fearing snowflake waited until her husband was gone before inviting the lad around and doing the deed. She got caught, her life is probably over and seems the husband (and good on him too) swiftly filed for divorce..none of this I'll stand with you and forgive you for banging a teenage boy 90 times.

Payson dance teacher charged with raping male student | Deseret News
Ffs he was seventeen not seven.If this is rape then we better start building a hell of a lot of prisons because half the country would be guilty.
I'm not excusing the fact that she was a teacher,but rape.No ****in way.
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Ffs he was seventeen not seven.If this is rape then we better start building a hell of a lot of prisons because half the country would be guilty.
I'm not excusing the fact that she was a teacher,but rape.No ****in way.
Not the point really is it?

She's a teacher in a position of responsibility and you know that little thing called the law, if they are under a certain age, you're breaking it.
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She definitely should lose her teaching credential, but I'm having a hard time getting outraged.
He offered, she agreed. Inappropriate? Sure. But rape? I don't think so.
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The hell? Is it normal for Americans to still be at the secondary level at 17? We leave at sixteen where I'm from.

If the age of consent in the country is 17 then she should have known better. It is 16 here. Also she even supplied alcohol? Wow. These things lead to unfair treatment in class? That's what I would be mad about if I was in a class with this boy. If I am studying hard to get a good grade and because Chad over here is humping her he is getting As. Hell no!

BTW @BobSimmons how do you know she was god-fearing?

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Job?

Gone.

Marriage? Family? Home?

Gone.

Alimony may also be unlikely due to proof of infidelity, plus her STBXH may have a solid case for full or primary custody.

Hope it was worth it.

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Ffs he was seventeen not seven.If this is rape then we better start building a hell of a lot of prisons because half the country would be guilty.
I'm not excusing the fact that she was a teacher,but rape.No ****in way.
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She definitely should lose her teaching credential, but I'm having a hard time getting outraged.
He offered, she agreed. Inappropriate? Sure. But rape? I don't think so.
Statutory rape by an adult in a position of authority. Plus if the kid was in alternative school due to any mental handicap then there may very well be a case for charges that go well beyond statutory rape.

She also provided alcohol -- and a lot of it -- to minors. As in under 21, not 18.

She should lose more than her teaching certification.

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Aparently there is also a second student who she gave alcohol and then had sex with. The law reads that if the person holds a position of authority over the child, they cannot consent to sex until they are 18. She, being their teacher, was in a position of authority and so they could not consent under law at age 16 or 17.

The reality was that she got these boys drunk and used her position to goad them into sex. She deserves what she gets, just as I would feel if this were a male teacher intoxicating a female student then having sex with her.

I'm glad her husband filed for divorce, but what a crappy way to find out!

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If he is under age 18, it's child abuse, too. She should be a registered sex offender. That's what they would do to a man. Oh, that's different. So sorry.

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@EunuchMonk 17 is the normal age for a HS senior in the states. Depending when and where he was born he could be 18. To echo the point other posters made: the age of consent depends on the state you live in, although the norm seems 16, by law. The term used to describe when it is broken is "statutory". Unlike the normal rape charge the under age does not have to press charges, in fact even if they don't want to the parents can.

A few decades ago there where a lot of stories about male teachers have sexual relations with 16 years olds. The girl could be 16 years and a weak when the intercourse happened no charges could be brought. So most states change the law to include any student/teacher intercourse regardless of age. If the boy was 18 she still would be charged as she was a teacher in his school. This provision applied only to teachers and admin. Note if he worked for her at a job, no chateges would likeky be brought. If it was the 45 year old neighbor no charges would be brought because he was of legal age to give consent.


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In 2014 alone, there were 781 reported cases of teachers and other school employees accused or convicted of sexual relationships with students.

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If he is under age 18, it's child abuse, too. She should be a registered sex offender. That's what they would do to a man. Oh, that's different. So sorry.

What if it shouldn't be done to either sex? I met my husband when I was 15 and he was 25. We started going out when I was 16, and was engaged at 17. I offered to give myself to him a dozen times but he said no, not until I'm legal. If I had asked him and he'd said yes, he would have then committed a crime and been called a child sex offender. For having sex with his then-fiancee! That's messed up if you ask me.


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Ffs he was seventeen not seven.If this is rape then we better start building a hell of a lot of prisons because half the country would be guilty.
I'm not excusing the fact that she was a teacher,but rape.No ****in way.
In Texas, it's commonly referred to as "statutory rape!"

Inasfar as the conviction probabilities go here with the criminal courts and prosecutors on such a charge, and taking into exception that Utah is a far more socially conservative state than Texas, I'd have to say that the ease of convicting her there in Utah would be a mere prosecutors dream!

In any event, "bully" to her H, for expeditiously dropping the "D bomb" on her skanky a$$!

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What if it shouldn't be done to either sex? I met my husband when I was 15 and he was 25. We started going out when I was 16, and was engaged at 17. I offered to give myself to him a dozen times but he said no, not until I'm legal. If I had asked him and he'd said yes, he would have then committed a crime and been called a child sex offender. For having sex with his then-fiancee! That's messed up if you ask me.
When I was barely fifteen I took lifeguard training classes,the instructor paired us off with people of similar height.I wasn't fully grown at that stage physically but mentally I was fully developed.I was put training with a girl called Denise who was seventeen.I suggested to her that we practice at my dads pool because the classes were only once a week.Well,I had a hell of a time with Denise and I don't mean swimming,but I never considered myself as a rape or sexual abuse victim.
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What if it shouldn't be done to either sex? I met my husband when I was 15 and he was 25. We started going out when I was 16, and was engaged at 17. I offered to give myself to him a dozen times but he said no, not until I'm legal. If I had asked him and he'd said yes, he would have then committed a crime and been called a child sex offender. For having sex with his then-fiancee! That's messed up if you ask me.
Some would take advantage,but was this a real wise decision that you made? There are reasons that these laws are in place aside from encountering a predator.

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