Re: My Bed Started Walking
Hello everyone. First of all I want to apologize for taking so long to respond. As you all predicted, my world imploded shortly after I got home from my last trip and last posted on here.
She got careless, left an android tablet with no PW protection sitting in our dining room. I waited till she went to sleep then went through the tablet. Needless to say, I found plenty of concern. She was using anonymous phone apps to text the OM. At first I didn't understand who it was because she had the number listed under a male friend of ours name. This at first threw me. I photographed everything I found and decided on a plan. I made up a story that the OM had just called me to confess and make amends for sleeping with my wife. I said he sounded really drunk and wondered how he got my number. I used the name of a man I knew she had dated a couple times in the past and slept with prior to us meeting. There's a couple of men like that on her Facebook until he was already on my radar. And while going through her tablet I saw where she was obsessively looking at his Facebook page. Something told me then, that's your boy. So I went and woke her up as she was taking a nap it was late afternoon. I told her the above story that I had concocted, I acted very upset. She looks at me and says what did he say? She was trying to figure out an answer. I told her that this person had confessed to having a lot of sex with my wife and was trying to make amends. She said oh he is an absolute drunk and we only slept together once! I'll make this short and sweet. We talked for several hours she still has stuck to her guns that I was one time. And this was the only person in seven years that she slept with or had an affair with. I buy none of it except that she has slept with someone else. Initially I think the fixer in me, agreed to work through a counselor and I told her what I expected. But she has shown very little remorse with the exception of the first night. This reaction has amaze me. I have been unable to eat, well much of anything, not had much sleep and quite frankly wish I would have just gone through with the divorce instead of investigating. I have access to her android phone and could run Dr Fone on it, but I just am having enough trouble with the details and I do know. Another note, the OM, redneck alcoholic, Who has been in a lot of legal trouble. His life is in a downward spiral. People that know me and know her and have seen pictures of him can't fathom it. When I found out it was him I was more concerned for her mental state that she would choose to be with someone like that. She also confessed to abusing prescription medications as well. She also was very obsessed with him -there's a lot I don't know and like I said I just don't really want to know. I sincerely want to thank everyone on here for their input, you all have been very helpful. Once again I apologize for the delay in getting back. Two weeks later I'm just now able to function and somewhat of a normal manner.
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