Re: Not sure what to do - Positive HPV test
Regarding the 2nd test....
If its a false positive then great. If that is good enough for you then just move on and live your life.
If it is not a false positive, then might I suggest a polygraph. I know that may sound all Law & Order like, but hear me out. What better way to kick this elephant out of the room? One simple question, one answer, and your concerns are addressed.
"Have you had any intimate and/or sexual contact of any kind, with anyone, other than your husband since being married?"
This would put all the questions regarding the locked door, personal trainer, etc etc, to rest.
Yes, she could be offended by the suggestion. Or she could view it as an easy way to put all this whole "did something happen" question behind her.
FYI...my wife and I have a very similar backstory to yours. And I can guarantee you if either of us had a verified STD related issue then a poly would be on the menu. If fact, if I had anything show up, I would insist on getting a poly just to reassure my wife that there was nothing to worry about.
****Also cervical cancer, when caught early, is very treatable with surgery. I know multiple women who had had it addressed this way. Quick procedure, in and out of the hospital in 4-5 hours. And never have to worry about it again.***
Last edited by stillthinking; 03-03-2017 at 12:02 AM.