Originally Posted by tropicalbeachiwish View Post
I think it can be transmitted by oral sex too. Are you sure that she was a Virgin, Virgin? As in no type of sex? Not everyone considers oral sex as "sex".
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It can be transmitted by oral sex. It can also be transmitted mother to child.
My wife has told me, as I stated earlier, and as I would share only in an anonymous forum, that well before we knew each other, she and a couple of her friends experimented with Oral sex.... they were very young, 4th or 5th grade I believe, and, as she described it, it was only few times acting out scenes from movies that the most definitely shouldn't have seen at that age. That is the only experience that she had other than kissing prior to our relationship which has been exclusive since January of 1988.
My own experience is just her. I had a couple of girl friends in school but they were of the holding hands variety. They did not last and things never progressed beyond that point. I was geek/nerd in school which lead to the insecurities I've referenced.
My father cheated on my mother prior to her becoming pregnant with me so it's possible, and completely unverifiable, she got it from him and I got it from her. My wife's father may have also slept around prior to conceiving with her mother, thus passing it to her mother and then to her.
That background also speaks to why our marriage is so important. we both came from broken homes and both of our fathers cheated and left. It took a long time for trust and love to replace the initial feelings that brought us together and when we committed, we both stated that it was forever and that we'd never put our kids through what we went through. Those are values we still actively discuss, even with our kids, and which we hold dear.
Again, a bit more detail to explain why this situation has me so thrown for a loop.